Hard Decision

Today my landlord asked Gerry and I why we don't use the rent money to buy a house. Instead of looking for house to rent, why not buy it. As we told her we are waiting apply PR in Australia, we don't want to make the decision for buying house. She told us we can sell the house if we fail to get PR. The thing is buying and selling is not so easy as she think. Especially all the paper works and hassle stuffs. She think we open bank and have a lot of money. We trying not to spend too much money. After since I back from Singapore, we hardly go for take away food or eat out. I have been looking for second job to earn as much money as possible. I also try to ask my current boss whether they need me more hour to work. Right now, I start to earn $400 a week. I am tired but I have no choice.

Later she told us she will let us stay until we get the confirmation for PR, which about Feb next year. She told us she want us to leave because her sisters ( don't know how many sisters) from Greece coming to stay with her for 4 months. She told us another reason for not letting us stay was she want her freedom back. She said she willing to help us by letting us stay in her house until next year. She said herself have a good heart and let us save enough money to buy a houses once we got the PR in Australia. She said renting house outside need to have $5000 out front because need to buy fridge, washing machine, furnitures and TV. All these need money.

What a mouth full of BULLSHIT!!!!!

At first want us to move out by end of this year, now can let us stay until next year Feb. Did she ever think she is not a easy person to live together? Although she only come back home from Sunday till Tuesday, the days with her around is like hell. She don't care of anyone at all. She walks so heavier than the elephant. No matter what she do in the houses, it is always so loud and noisy. She don't care whether Gerry or I were study or sleeping. Gerry listen to his music loud using his headphone while he studying, he still can hear her moving or doing stuffs. Sometimes she threw our newspaper without asking us. She loves to run our lives for us by telling us not to buy under special food. We have use so much patient to put up with all her BULLSHITS. We have quite enough for all these BULLSHITS already.

The thing is if we continue to stay with her, we have to put up with all her BULLSHITS again. Not only that, her sisters coming and we feel that worst thing coming too. Maybe she will come back home everyday to accompany the sisters. Then the houses will full of noise. How can we put up with all this noise? Not only that, she told us if we agree to to stay on, we have to respect their privacy. She talked like now we are not doing that.

In some points, I do agree with her. But before we decide to move out, we had done a price search. We could get fridge and washing machine under good condition and cheap price. All we need are to look for it and we found it. For furniture, we found some and was for free. Some houses threw their furniture outside their house to let people pick up. All we need are car to take them and they are in good condition. Just clean and sun a bit, that's it. So far I got 2 couches, 4 chairs, 1 table, 1 study table, 1 small office drawer and mattress base for free. I only spend a bit of money to buy 2 bedroom drawer and coffee table for $60 only. Sometimes we don't have to buy first hand furniture, it is much cheaper to go for second hard stuffs. She makes us gone through all the hassle and now she say let us stay.

If we choose to stay with her, we only thinking of her cheap rent. But no freedom. How much longer we can put up with her? If we choose to move out, I have to pay more rent but we gain my TOTAL FREEDOM. Of course we have to pay the all the water, gas and electrical bills by ourselves. Right now, we pay half the electrical and gas bills and she pay the water bill. The phone and Internet bills are under us. What should we do?

GOD PLEASE HELP US TO DECIDE